Patience

 Patience is a virtue that can be instilled in children. Patience teaches children the value of delaying gratification, a skill necessary for maturity. Patience can help develop the ability to think through and resolve problems; it can counteract impulsively acting out behaviors. 

 The value of patience lies in its ability to lead to inner calm and emotional strength of character. Teaching patience by example helps children learn resilience, self containment, and the ability to self soothe. These are qualities needed for emotional maturity.  General Tips for Parents on Teaching Patience to Children: 

1. Teach by modeling.
2. Refrain from snapping impatiently at your children. 
3. Use "no-shaming" techniques to help your child understand that she or he may need to wait or take some time before a need is addressed or request is fulfilled. 
4. Take time to look at the child and listen carefully when she is talking to you. 

 Giving your attention even when you are distracted or busy shows the quality of patience more clearly than words can explain it. Good luck and feel free to leave comments about if it works for you or not. Thanks all!