Trigger warning...
This again, I went to the store and saw this young lady yank her child up by his shirt because he would not stop running in the store.
I mean really is all of that really necessary?
It's so sad, as an ex-abused child I could feel this little boy pain. He was already embarrassed because she was yelling and cursing at him but to yank him up he look shocked and hurt.
Whoo, as mentioned in a past post I am totally against hitting of any kind toward a child. I mean they are so innocent. And to me hitting is an unnecessary way to gain and maintain control.
I have control without the hitting. My daughter has her timeouts for anywhere between 1-5 minutes. Then before she is released from timeout she must acknowledge what she did, then apologize.
The catch to time out though for me is that wherever she acts out she goes in time out right then and there.
For instance, if we go to the Kmart and she acts up I give her 2 warnings and if she still does not listen then she will go in timeout right there where she is misbehaving.
On that note I am against hitting of any kind towards a child that cannot properly defend him/herself.
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