Children and mannerism

 Teaching manners is not an easy job.

 It is very difficult job and it is very important because it will be a life long lesson. It can be done in a step by step manner.  Let us begin with two or three small words like “thank you”, “sorry”. While teaching these types of words, we can also use signs along with this so that children can remember in an easy manner. One thing to remember that once you introduce manners, just continue to practice it while you introduce other words and manners.  It will be a difficult task and it takes time, but the young ones are smart enough to catch it. An important thing to remember is that parents and the elder ones are the mirror for children. Be a role model good listening by showing that you are listening your child by imitating and reflecting what your child says.  They will imitate whatever they saw. So always remember to behave properly in front of little ones. Must have very patience while teaching a toddler. It is very nice that instead of ordering, try to make choice for them. Always limit the use of directions and questions. Use positive terms that tell your child what to do. Use games and playful language to teach your child to listen. A child resistant behavior cannot be change in an easy manner. Responding harshly or with criticism only make their behavior worse. The only thing we can do is be calm and try to understand in that way they can understand.